The short answer: not necessarily. Whether your parent's property is counted towards care fees depends on specific circumstances — and there are legal options to protect it.
This is one of the biggest fears families face. Here's what actually happens, separated from the myths.
Quick summary: The property is only counted if your parent is the sole owner and no qualifying person lives there. Even then, a Deferred Payment Agreement can prevent an immediate sale. And if your parent's primary need is health-based, NHS Continuing Healthcare can fund 100% of care regardless of assets.
Reality: The council cannot seize anyone's property. What happens is a financial assessment (means test) that determines how care is funded.
Even when property is included in the assessment, there are important protections:
- 12-week property disregard. For the first 12 weeks after a permanent care home admission, the value of the property is ignored. This gives time for decisions.
- Spouse or partner still lives there. If a husband, wife or partner remains in the property, it is fully excluded from the assessment.
- Qualifying relative lives there. If someone aged 60 or over, a child under 16, or a disabled relative lives in the property, it is excluded.
These are automatic disregards under the Care Act 2014. You don't need to apply — they should be applied as part of the financial assessment.
For a full list of disregards, see our Care Home Funding Eligibility Guide.
Myth 2: "You Have to Sell Straight Away"
Reality: Even when property is included in the assessment, you do not have to sell immediately.
A Deferred Payment Agreement (DPA) lets the council pay the care fees while a legal charge is placed on the property. The debt is repaid later — when the property is sold, or from the estate after death.
Key details:
- Interest is charged at 4.69% per year (current rate, compounding)
- An administrative charge may also apply
- The property is not sold until the family chooses or the estate is settled
- It is not a grant — it's a secured loan against the property
Local councils are legally required to offer DPAs to anyone who meets the criteria. If your council doesn't mention it, ask.
How Much Does a DPA Cost Over Time?
The interest compounds, which means the longer the DPA runs, the more expensive it becomes. On a property valued at £250,000:
- After 1 year: ~£11,700 in interest
- After 3 years: ~£36,700 in interest
- After 5 years: ~£64,200 in interest
This is in addition to the care fees themselves. Understanding how much care homes cost in your area helps you plan.
Myth 3: "Transfer the House to the Children Beforehand"
Reality: This is the most dangerous myth. It's called deprivation of assets, and councils actively look for it.
If the council believes that assets were transferred, given away, or spent down with the purpose of avoiding care fees, they can treat those assets as if the transfer never happened. This is called notional capital — the financial assessment proceeds as if your parent still owns the property.
Important points:
- There is no "7-year rule" for care funding. The 7-year rule applies to Inheritance Tax — it has nothing to do with care home means testing. There is no time limit.
- The council looks at intent. Was the purpose of the transfer to reduce assets for care fee purposes?
- What is NOT deprivation: normal birthday or Christmas gifts, paying regular bills, spending on living expenses, or transfers made years before care was foreseeable for genuine reasons.
If you're considering any financial planning around care, take advice from a regulated financial adviser — ideally one accredited by the Society of Later Life Advisers (SOLLA).
Myth 4: "If Assets Are Above £23,250, There's No Help"
Reality: The £23,250 threshold only applies to means-tested council funding. There are other sources of support:
- NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC) is not means-tested at all. If your parent's primary need is health-based, the NHS can fund 100% of care costs — regardless of savings, property or income. Even millionaires qualify if health needs are met.
- Funded Nursing Care (FNC) provides £220.46 per week towards nursing costs for anyone in a nursing home. This is not means-tested and is available to all nursing home residents.
- Attendance Allowance — up to £108.55/week for people over State Pension age who need help with personal care. Not means-tested.
- 12-week property disregard can temporarily bring assessed capital below the threshold.
Many families assume they don't qualify for any support and pay full fees unnecessarily. It's always worth checking — our funding eligibility guide explains each pathway in detail.
Myth 5: "All Care Homes Cost the Same"
Reality: Costs vary enormously by region and care type.
- The gap between the cheapest and most expensive regions in England is over £634 per week — more than £30,000 per year (LaingBuisson, 2024)
- The gap between residential and dementia nursing care can be £300+ per week
- Self-funders typically pay more than council-funded residents in the same home
Understanding what a fair price looks like in your area matters. Government MSIF data shows what councils consider a reasonable fee — and this can be a useful reference point when reviewing what you're being quoted.
For regional pricing detail, see How Much Does a Care Home Cost in 2026?
What About Jointly Owned Property?
How property is owned makes a significant difference to the financial assessment.
Joint Tenants
If your parent owns the property as a joint tenant (the most common arrangement for married couples), each owner has an equal share. When one owner goes into care, the council assesses their share — typically 50% of the property value.
However, if the other joint tenant is a spouse or partner who still lives in the property, the entire property is disregarded from the assessment.
Tenants in Common
If the property is owned as tenants in common, each owner can hold a different share (e.g., 70/30 or 60/40). Only the care home resident's specific share is assessed.
Some families restructure ownership from joint tenants to tenants in common as part of later-life financial planning. This should always be done with proper legal advice and well before care is needed — otherwise it risks being treated as deprivation of assets.
If Your Parent Is the Sole Owner
If your parent is the sole owner and no qualifying person lives in the property, the full value is included in the financial assessment. The options then are:
- Deferred Payment Agreement — avoids immediate sale
- Renting the property — rental income can contribute to care fees while the property is retained
- Selling the property — proceeds fund care directly
A regulated financial adviser can help you assess which option makes most sense for your family's situation.
What Happens to the House After Death?
This is one of the most common questions families don't think to ask until later.
If a DPA is in place: The outstanding debt (care fees plus accumulated interest) is repaid from the estate — usually by selling the property. Any remaining equity passes to beneficiaries.
If fees were paid from savings or income: The property passes through the estate as normal, according to the will or intestacy rules.
If the council funded care (no DPA): The council cannot reclaim costs from the estate unless a DPA was in place. However, if the council believes deprivation of assets occurred, they may pursue the matter.
The property question is rarely as simple as "sell or don't sell." It depends on who lives there, what other assets exist, what care is needed, and what funding routes are available.
Our free report includes a funding eligibility check alongside quality and pricing information for 3 care homes in your area — specific to your council area. It's a starting point for making a decision based on facts rather than fear.
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